Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes. – Carl Jung
What does that mean?
When we look inside our heart, our true self awakens. Until then, our true self is hidden, and we follow with our groups. Our family, our friends, our community and our nation end up being our compass. When we live without looking within our heart, we exist as if we are in a dream, someone else’s dream. To awaken, we must look inside our heart.
When we look inside, into our own heart, our vision can begin to become clear. When we look inside our heart, we discover what we are, who we are, and what we truly believe. This process of examination, of self-exploration, is the foundation of our true self.
Why is vision important?
Vision means many things. In the quote, I believe vision means how we perceive the world. When we ignore our heart, we see through a fog of dreams and ideas that may not represent our best true self. They are most likely fogs generated by society and group values based on our associations.
Once we have looked inside our heart and know what we believe, personally and without reservation, only then can we consider ourselves to be truly awake and engaged in life. That is when our vision becomes clear, and we can follow our own path, not the path our parents, friends or society would have us follow.
That is what vision means, why it is important, and how it can change your destiny.
Where can I apply this in my life?
What did you want to be when you grew up? What did your parents or friends want you to be? Did you choose your classes to be with other kids in your group, or did you follow your heart? Did you choose it to annoy your parents?
Did you ever date someone for any reason other than because you truly and deeply cared for them? Did you ever date someone to annoy someone else, or because they were there and interested?
Would you say that there were clear distinctions in the above paragraphs between following the path of your heart and seeing clearly, and wandering around in a dream? While love interests and career choices are big choices, they are far from the only ones that people make.
The things I do for a career fascinate me, but they are not the true calling of my heart. I’ve been looking into it, and believe teaching of some sort is in my future. I just haven’t figured out what or how as yet. As for love, I have an ex-wife and a wife, so I have traveled that path as well.
Grab some paper and think for a few moments about this: What would you do if you could do it all over again? Select any “it” you wish, love, career, first car, first pet, what ever you think you might have done that wasn’t truly part of your true self.
For each item you put on the list, consider what you really did, and why you chose the way you did. Compare that to what you think is your heart’s calling. Take a moment (after you write those things down) and look inside your heart.
When I do this, I close my eyes and imagine I am getting smaller. Eventually, I’m small enough to sink into my own body and descend into my rib-cage. I then look at my cartoon-style heart and ask it questions, and answers appear in my mind’s eye. Sounds corny, but it works for me. You’ll have to be honest with yourself and ask the tough questions, or the exercise will not yield all it could.
Were you surprised by any of the answers you got from your introspection? Have any of the mists of the dream lifted? Do you see more clearly now? I hope so. Do you have any updates to the list you started? Do you want to select another aspect of your life to investigate? Have at it, and have some fun exploring and discovering your true self.
From: Twitter, @tonyrobbins
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